Saturday, February 19, 2011

你的女朋友值多少钱?

That day i saw this article.

某个综艺节目现场,女主持人气势咄咄地问一个男嘉宾,你为什么那么在乎钱?男嘉宾说:“钱能买到一切!”现场的观众哗然。
男嘉宾微笑着说:“我们做个测试吧。一个很简单的主题,你的一个仇人爱上了你的女友,现在想要你退出,那个男的愿意出钱来补偿你。”
所有的观众都很不屑这种论调,男嘉宾缓缓开出了第一个价格:“五万!”现场的观众松了口气,论点很集中:“五万,简直是瞧不起人!为了五万放弃了爱情?更主要的是放弃了自己的人格。”所有的人都不约而同的否定了。

男嘉宾接着开出了第二个价格:“五十万!”现场的声音小了很多,一部分人开始自己的算计了。过了好大一会儿,绝大多数的男人依然选择了否定,只有少数人接受了这五十万,其中一个说:“自己没有钱,父母苦了一辈子了,临老了生病没钱医治,为了父母,放弃了爱情吧。”

男嘉宾接着开出了第三个价格:“五百万!”一半的男人沉默了,另一半的男人怯生生地说:“我要爱情。”身边的女友也有点呆不住了,一个女孩子站起来说:“如果一个男人肯出五百万,我想我没有理由拒绝他。”
沉默的男人选择了金钱,五百万可以买一套房子,一辆车子,甚至可以开始自己的事业。

接着男嘉宾开出了第四个价格:“五千万!”全场哗然。只有一个人依然选择了放弃,他解释道:我的爱情是无价的。”当问到她的女友是否感动的时候,女友说:“我虽然感动,但我更感动的是为了我付出自己五千万的人,而不是放弃别人的五千万。他的观点很可敬,但不现实。”

为什么几乎所有的人都选择了金钱?那个人还是以前的那个人,他的为人和评价只是因为钱的变化而变化了:爱情是无价的,但面对钱多钱少的时候却又如此不同。问题是,爱情如果通过了交换还称得上爱情吗?
有人说,被钱换走的不是爱情,而是一种所有权,爱情已经走了。

再听听那位嘉宾最后说了什么: 
我相信爱情,相信所有的人性,所以我努力的挣钱、爱钱。我只是不希望我的爱情和人性受到别人的金钱的考验罢了。
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So now.
who say money is not everything?
If I have all those money, i can get whatever i want.
"Everything has a price", it was so true.
So ! GreG ! 
Sacrifice ! things that you couldn't get now doesn't means that you wouldn't get it forever !
Earn your first bucket of gold then everything will get better starting from there !

~G~

Puapa New Guinea

Since I joined this business, my parents was totally not happy and not being supportive in what I am doing.
Therefore, they dug out every contact they have and try to seek for the profession which I am studying.

They actually suggested me to go for Puapa New Guinea, located above Australia, and occupied the eastern half of the island of New Guinea, which left side is Indonesia. Papua New Guinea was once Australia and gained its independence some year around 1975.

I heard some saying that it’s easier to apply for PR in Australia after some years working in Papua New Guinea. I don’t know how real this is but I wish that it was real.

Growing up in the same small town with you is the happiest thing ever happened on me, it was like we are sharing something.I like that we are living in the same small town because I get to go where you have been and share the same atmosphere, may be the next person I met have been close to you and I get to hear a little but more about you.

However, when we growing older, everyone leaving the small town and went to big cities and live their own different life.

Australia, there is the place you further your education.
Australia, there is the place you wanted to get your PR in.
Australia, there is the place you wanted stay.
Australia, there is the place you spend Australia Dollar.
Australia, there is the place I don’t get to step in for the time being.

Once I wish I could gave up everything here and take my parent advise and then work hard at that rural country and then apply for Australia PR. May be at the end, I still can continue to share the same thing with you again.

How stupid!


~G~

p.s:
I you could be successful in this business!
There will be nothing that you can't do !
Believe that you can success and do it !
Dream it do it ! 
Don't just dreaming ! 
time to move your lazy fat ass !

Sunday, February 13, 2011

Signs

May be I have been watching too much movie or reading too much books that get me crazy.
However, i starts to believe in SINGS.
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Have you Guys watched "Final Destination"?
There will always be a character who eventually become a "prophet" and s/he leads others to get away the "death" by some little observation of signs from don't know where.
And they avoided death.
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So i starts to believe in signs.
God may be giving us some hints and if we can pay more attentions, we might get what God wanted to tell us and help us to avoid something.
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Even from dreams, we also can find some hints.
Did you guys every dream of something and they actually happened ?
Or did you guys been to some situation which some how like "deja vu" and as if you guys have been been through it ?
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When having pair of pets with the loved one.
One passed away for don't know reason why.
Then eventually the couple breaks up after a rough time.
Can that be a hints ?
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Ahhh..I don't know ...
may be i should pay more attentions in every single little thing just that i can hints some hints and avoid some difficulties or get some fortune from that ???
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When you pray you get something, when you don't pray, you won't get anything.
God bless me.


~G~


p.s.:
Somehow when I'm back to my hometown.
I felt like i am Getting lazier.
Oh...and fatter.. OMG~!
I should just leave this place to avoid that ! 
But ..Ahh !! I miss this place and the people here too Y.Y
sad thing.

Wednesday, February 9, 2011

錯的人



明知道愛情牢靠 但是我還是拼命往裡跳
明知道再走可能是監牢 但是我還是相信只是煎熬
朋友不要不要 不要拿自己的幸福開玩笑
但是做人已經那麼累 假惺惺的想要逃
在愛裡連真心都不能給 這才真正的可笑
太真 太容易 讓自己犧牲 太容易讓自己沉淪
太容易 不顧一切 滿是傷痕
我太笨 明知道你是的人
明知道不是緣分 但是我還奮不顧身
明知道愛情並不牢靠 但是我還是拼命往裡跳
明知道再走可能是監牢 但是我還是相信只是煎熬
朋友都勸我不要不要 不要拿自己的幸福開玩笑
但是做人已經那麼累 假惺惺的想要逃
在愛裡連真心都不能給 這才真的真正的可笑
愛得太真 太容易 讓自己犧牲 太容易讓自己沉淪
太容易 不顧一切 滿是傷痕
我太笨 明知道你是錯的人
明知道這不是緣分 但是我還奮不顧身
可能 在愛裡面這樣算
可能 永遠沒有所謂永恆
但是我 不願放棄這裡面一點點可能 寧願笨也不想要悔恨
愛得太真 太容易 讓自己犧牲 太容易讓自己沉淪 太容易 不顧一切 滿是傷痕
我太笨 明知道你是錯的人 明知道這不是緣分 但我還是奮不顧身
我太笨 明知道你是錯的人 明知道這不是緣分 但我相信有點可能

Tuesday, February 8, 2011

旋转木马

有人说,旋转木马是最残忍的游戏,彼此追逐却有永恒的距离.



我说: 这样的 彼此追逐, 总好过连 距离都 看不到的 追逐 幸福吧 !
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至少知道 对方一直都 很努力地在背后 默默的 看守保护 对方. 
~G~



P.s.:
既然难得 能够在一起.
为什么 要用"分手 " 作为 绑着对方 的筹码呢?
实在不明白. 
一个把 "分手 " 两字挂嘴边 的人 能爱你多深.
这样的 一段感情能坚持多久. 深感怀疑.


Sunday, February 6, 2011

Gossip

Hohoho~!!!
It's Chinese New Year ~! 
and It's the time you get to see everyone and ask about how are they now ~
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One thinG i love during Chinese New Year is that it's a super Gossip time ~!!!
You Get tons of information when people meet~!
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Thou Gossip about people is so not good ~!!
However, it's the thing that hold all of us together.
When you have someone or something to gossip about ~~~
hey ~!!!
who don't love to Gossip ???
and ~! 
hey ~ i bet all of you know that there was a series named "Gossip Girl"~!!
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Hurray ~ Gossips ROCKS~~!!!
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Gossiping about other people is so much fun ~!!!
I wonder what people would like to Gossip about me at my back ~!!
haha ~!! just curious~~
I wonder I'm not that perfect until no one even care to Gossip about me at my back ~~
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By the way, good thing about gossiping is that, you will know what people doesn't like other people deeds.
It's seems like a well of truth, a reflection about all the bad things people did.
When you are gossiping, it actually helps you yourself to know what people commonly dislike.
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It's help you to become a better you but not the real you.
But who doesn't want everyone to love them ??? right ?
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I love Gossip ~!!! :)

~G~

p.s.:
It's so not nice that during a "discussion"
others actually mentioned about something that you also did but just the main character is not you.
yea~ that's the time you should have a self realization, self reflection and it's time to change ~! 

Constraints

Have you guys heard about the story about sand ?
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may be yes or may be not.
nevermind.
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It starts like that...
There were three f people holding some amount of sands in their hands.
They are having a competition.
The longer you hold that amount of sands in your hands, you win.
The more amount you kept in your hands, you win.
Just in case to be a winner, hold it longer and with the less amount of sands loss.
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Therefore, everyone staring at their hands and hold the sands as hard as possible.
Somehow, sands are just to strange.
The harder a person hold it, the more amount of sands loss.
Eventually, at the end, nothing much left in the hands and with such less amount of sands left in the hands.
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'Since so less left, why don't i just gave up and do other things for heaven sake', one of them thought.
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So he just let go and see how the other two doing.
and he asked one of them.
"Hey there are nothing much less, you think you can win?"
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'Since so less left, why don't i just kept the amount i have and continue with the competition at least i am better than you', the other thought.
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Feeling imbalance and he went to ask another person.
Surprisingly, the guy still have a lots in the hands and he is not even focusing .
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'How you did it ?', he asked.
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'Nahhh, i just grab the sands then a sea gull caught my attention, and then the wave and then the sunsets, i don't even realized that i have that much in my hands, hey, where's yours? '
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Just like that, the third guy win the competition.
What he won?
a handful of sands, the nice scenery.
The second guy?
a little bit of sands in the hand, painful hands and tired body.
The third guy?
a lesson.
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So if there was such a match, who would you like to be?
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What if the sands replaced to some things important of you?
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What if it's love, happiness?
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.
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It was 3rd day of chinese new year and it's the 1st time we club with our old fellow classmate.
I am so happy to see my friend happily dancing enjoying themselves. that's at least what i felt.
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May be clubbing is not a good thing and it's harmful to health ?(due to 2nd hand smoke or alcohol)
But what's wrong with hanging out with friends, move along with the music, have some drinks and having fun?
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DAHHHHhhh...
I just can't get the point at which the other half not letting the other half doing what they like.
Not trusting the other half or just that they are a control freak who want the other half become their own stuff.
Your other half is not your toy.
They harder you hold them, they would be crushed and damaged.
If you would like to have a damaged toy?
I would say, why not ?
Wait! May be your toy is just CLAY.
Clay change to whatever shape you like and they don't even spoilt.
Are you a Clay to your so called 'life partner'.? or should say 'master'
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"Yes Master, your wish is my command."
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bye bye. screw you !


~G~

p.s:
Chinese New Year is always the best time.
Because other than getting ang pau.
I Get too see most of my busy friends !!! yay ~!!!
CNY! Salute!

Tuesday, February 1, 2011

Letter to GreG